The recent bill in congress for the dissolution of marriage as filed by Alvarez is intended to solve the chronic problem of unhappiness between married couples.
The bill is hoped to be the cure to make people happy again if passed.
What is the problem in marriage, in the Family, and why is it very important at this time to enact such a law, and what are its repercussions?
The problem of unhappiness in marriage is rooted in many things that runs in the domestic experience of people. The squabbling and petty fights of couples and its differences came from many problems confronting their lives.
First, when people were married, they were happy. But along time, when relationship is mired by financial and domestic problems, the experience of married life becomes hard and difficult. The obligations of parties to meet its responsibilities for their children, jobs, employment, and sustenance in their needs becomes the factor of their arguments and source of petty quarrels after their marriage ceremony.
In all, aspects of human needs are factors that makes marriage a happy one. This is the material aspect of life.
The Moral and spiritual aspect of marriage is also important even the material aspect has flourished, and due to the availability of resources that fills the material needs of people, the effect would result to vices and immoral behaviors, it would simply mean that nature of humanity is unsatifiable.
Humans don't have satisfaction, and by this virtue, marriage is not spared by this problem. The polygamous nature of men as inherent is one factor, and only a few of them suffer exemption, thereby men will benefit more of this law.
Why dissolution of marriage for pursuit of happiness? We believe happiness is attainable depending on how you resolve it.
To divide family with children underneath for destruction is something problematic, specially in the case when the state promote them, will result to enormous social problems even more.
As today, there are so many broken families even without dissolution of marriage law, yet making them legal will skyrocket the data further, that children will suffer and result to more catastrophic scenarios of society's problems.
Drugs, suicide, poverty, education, criminality are few of the recipients of broken families when legal dissolution of marriage takes effect.
This bill when it comes into law, will contribute more to the cycle of the problem of society we are suffering at the current, as it will be a catalyst for more.
Solution to marriage are security in jobs, employment, and greater emphasis on morality of persons. The government should provide vigorously industries that will create livelihood to many of Filipinos that unhappiness in job environment will make them seek marriage to make them happy. To make them long for family of their own, must become the purpose, to give them fulfillment, joy, and happiness in life.
To make marriage as a source of joy.
In reverse situation, when jobs, incomes, and materialism can make people unhappy, marriage can become the solution.
A support for marriage must be made and enacted instead, to make them stern and fruitful for the nation's advantage.
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